10 rules for Dom	10 rules for sub
Be patient! Until when you have not begun a true and trust relationship you have no right to order as you like the sub. Be kind and patient respect and give all the time who the sub need. The sub should be conquered with the hearth and mind not with violence!	Be patient! Your potential Dom will let you to know if He/She interested to you or not, keep in mind that your offer of submission is to serve and to satisfy someone so don't expect the perfect Dom of your hidden dreams. Give time to time to find the right one!
Be humble! You could be a God or a Goddess on the earth but nobody need to know it or be told, you'll have later the possibility to demonstrate the abilities. Don't yell your qualities or to promise things that you'll not be able to realize. Sooner or later you'll demonstrate the truth.	Be humble! You could be a God or a Goddess on the earth but nobody need to know it or be told, you'll have later the possibility to demonstrate the abilities. Don't yell your qualities or to promise things that you'll not be able to realize. Sooner or later you'll demonstrate the truth.
Be receptive! Who dominates is considered a Maestro in BDSM, but you remember without shame to learn too much by your sub even if novice. Therefore no shame to learn by other Dom with different characteristics of yours.	Be receptive! You can learn a lot in BDSM by other Dom and sub, does'n matter if expert or not. The BDSM is a personal art, nobody is a person "who know all" if you think so of yourself you lose the chance to know deserving persons.
To comunicate! You're responsible to take care to the basic rules in order to establish a healthy D/s relationship. Before to begin "to play" be sure of the experiences, the limits and tastes, important informations of health of the sub, without these informations is like playing to Russian roulette. You ask to sub about your point of view about the BDSM, don't hesitate to communicate, is better to loose all the doubts before to act. You establish clearly the rules, limits and eventual contracts. Don't think the sub know already all.	To communicate! The communication is necessary, your Dom needs to know personal information of you, like past experiences, fantasies, new of your health, fears,limits etc. Don't expect your Dom read in your mind. Your cooperation will help both to give begin to play in the better way.
Be honest! If you want to experience new situations or methods, you have always to say that in advance to your sub, it's his/her right to know. Be honest with yourself always dominate until to a level where you're all the time in control. Play safe is first of all the rest, there are not valid excuses to avoid it.	Be honest! No shame to discuss about your fantasies and needs, your Dom expects you do it. Be honest is essential in these cases, saying lies can produce problems, and sometimes the problems could be dangerous.
Be sensitive! The border between safe, serious, and a totally dangerous D/s relation is very thin, depend on you! The D/s relation could be the perfect synthesis of your needs and of your sub, both act in complete mutual confidence, remember to respect always such confidence, or threat it never! The submission who your sub offer to you is a special and rare gift.	Be vulnerable! Your submission is not a one-way road but a two direction one, don't seek your personal satisfaction of your desires, if you want only some things talk of it to your Dom but don't expect ti use your Dom like a puppet just to realizing the fantasies who you have written in your mind. When the confidence is complete and mutual let the Dom expand your limits and enjoy!
Be realistic! Try to end every session leaving the sub with stimulus to still repeat and wish to receive more the next time, never leaving the sub with the sense to have received too much of what the sub expected. Remember the Sensibility the Power, the Control and the Stimulation are important keys to use. In the sessions never try to realize what you have seen in a professional video or magazine.	Be realistic! Your Dom is a human being so He/She could have weakness or moments of confusion, don't consider that like weakness, take it easy otherwise you complicate the situation. And try to see the difference between real and the fantasy or what you have seen in professional video/magazine. Few Doms have a well equipped Dungeon, to purchase many instruments is expensive, be comprehensive.
Be Dominant! What sub looking for is a real Dominant and takes control of their body and mind and not pure and crude violence. Your D/s relation must involve all your existence, and let your sub fall in love of you. You follow the rules and expect obedience punish appropriately when and how the situation require it.	Be submissive! Let your Dom takes total control of you, don't guess or tell to your Dom what you want to do or to receive if you continues to insist directing the "game" then you should try to become a Dom, you have accepted the role and limits, tries not to exceed these limits, obey and respect the orders. The Dom has already many things to think and control like your safety and health, so don't bother.
Be healthy! The BDSM requires that the participants are in good physics that psychical health. Many factors can negatively influences the play, like the alimentary habits, time dedicated to take a rest the quantity of alcool assumed, drugs etc. Never practice when the mental and physicist conditiono is minimal. As Dom you are responsible of yourself and of sub of course, don't overstimate yourself, just violate a rule or limit and the confidence of your sub could be dangerous! If you think different is much better stay away from BDSM.	Be healthy! The BDSM requires that the participants are in good physics that psychical health. Many factors can negatively influences the play, like the alimentary habits, time dedicated to take a rest the quantity of alcool assumed, drugs etc. The Dom needs to know the condition of your physics and mental health if it's not so good is better you not practise. You'll satisfy much better your Dom when you'll be in optimal conditions, and your Dom will be pleased of it.
Have fun! After all now you are ready to play and to enjoy tha wonderfoul BDSM world. Left yourself to be involved totally and enjoy without inhibition and remember it is not at all true that who work and exercises in BDSM is persons with upsets psychical, violent, raw, maniac and soon on... but they are just intelligent persons, and they make of BDSM a special and beautiful world.	Have fun! After all now you are ready to play and to enjoy tha wonderfoul BDSM world. Left yourself to be involved totally and enjoy without inhibition and remember it is not at all true that who work and exercises in BDSM is persons with upsets psychical, violent, raw, maniac and soon on... but they are just intelligent persons, and they make of BDSM a special and beautiful world.